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Sex games can enhance intimacy to a certain extent. They provide a platform for partners to participate and interact together, increasing physical contact and emotional communication between each other. During the game, both parties can better understand each other's needs and preferences, thereby improving the quality of sex life. At the same time, this fresh experience can also add fun and freshness to the relationship, allowing partners to feel each other's care and creativity. However, sex games are only a way to enhance intimacy. The key lies in communication, respect and joint participation of both parties. Only when both parties feel comfortable and happy can they truly play their positive role.
1. Underwear-On Game
What you’ll need: 30 min; Soft underwear
Sexy-times with one rule: you both have to keep your underwear on the whole time.
Anticipation builds desire - when you can’t do things you want to do, tension builds and builds. Touch at the edges and through the fabric until you can’t take it anymore.
How to play
- Make out and as your clothes come off, don’t strip down past your underwear bottoms.
- You’re allowed to touch/lick/kiss around underwear edges, and through the fabric, but no pulling them to the side!
- Watch as you both go a little insane (the good kind).
2. Hand-in-hand
What you’ll need: 30 min; Pillows
Touch yourself just how you like it, using your partner's fingers and hands.
Hands-on learning at its hottest. Use more than words to show them what you like. Hold each other close and guide their hands as the pleasure builds.
How to play
Find a position where you can comfortably direct their hands. It might take some trial and error! A few options to try:
- Sit in their lap, leaning on pillows
- Spoon on your side
- Sit side-by-side on a couch
- Kneel with your partner behind or to the side of you
- Lay on your back, with your partner kneeling next to you
- Guide your partner's hand where and how you want to be touched, narrating as you go or letting your hands doing the talking. Find the movements that make you shiver.
- Keep going until you come or are ready to switch (Bonus- you may be in the perfect position for post-orgasm cuddles!).
3. Pleasure Mapping
What you’ll need: 30 min
Intimately explore each other's bodies to find sensitive spots, and how they like to be touched.
New discoveries await you - let curiosity guide you to them. Make your way across each other's body slowly and playfully- you might strike gold where you least expect it.
How to play
- Pick a body part to start and explore different kinds of touch on just that area.
- Try places you'd normally miss- the inside of their elbow or crease of their hip. Give it attention with your hands, mouth, or toys- everything from feather-light touches to firm pressure.
- Share feedback throughout on what feels best. Unlock a new favorite? Give it a name so you'll both remember it.
- After a few minutes, shift to a new area. Be ready to be surprised at what spots you like!
4. Timer Game
What you’ll need: 20 min; Timer
Set a timer for 15-20 minutes and one lucky partner focuses purely on receiving pleasure.
Let go of thoughts - this is all about sensation. There's no pressure to respond, reciprocate, or orgasm- just relax into your partner's touch and see how good it can feel when there's no end goal.
How to play
- Set a timer to 15 or 20 minutes and pick which partner will give and receive.
- Agree that orgasm isn't the goal- for the full time, aim to let go and lean into feeling. No moaning for your partner's benefit!
- The giver can kiss, touch, massage, and tease their partner's body- it's all about their pleasure.
- When the timer rings, you're done! Even more fun than baking a cake ;)
5. Grind around the world
What you’ll need: 15 min
Discover the unique pleasures of grinding against different areas of your partner's body.
Let her body take control: Grinding on your partner lets instinct guide you to the perfect pressure and speed. Focus on the slow building pleasure and follow your body's desires without jumping to penetration.
How to play
- Set the rule of no penetration for at least 15 minutes- no matter how much you want it.
- With your partner laying down, mount and rub your vulva and clit against each of the following parts of their body for a few minutes. Try it with underwear on or off for different sensations.
- Their thigh
- Their stomach
- Their arm or bicep
- Their butt
- The shaft of their penis (if they have one)
- Any other place you find sexy
- Find the pressure, speed, and motion that feels best. Try letting your body take the lead- it might surprise you both with something new.
6. Vulvigami
What you’ll need: 20 min; Phone/laptop
Play with gently pulling or folding the vulva in different ways to see how touch feels different.
Sex can be silly, but silly can feel shockingly good. Lighthearted exploration helps build intimacy and find new favorites that lead to more intense pleasure.
How to play
- Cuddle up together and take a look at the different Vulvigami folds for inspiration (we strongly encourage giggling!).
- Start with your favorite warmup- kissing and touching until you're ready for more. Then have one partner lay back, and play with gently pulling or folding their vulva into new positions.
- Try a variety of touches with each shape; from light strokes to firm licks to penetration, see how your favorites feel different and new.
- Take your time to explore thoroughly and without rushing. If you find something you like, note the name or give it one of your own!
7. Window Shopping
What you’ll need: 40 min; Sex toy store
Get inspired to explore your fantasies by browsing a sex store and picking out a new toy to use together.
Unlock your imagination: We all have things we're curious about, and browsing for toys together can uncover new fantasies to explore.
How to play
- Drive to a sex store or get cozy on the couch with a laptop and an online store.
- Browse through the store, pausing at anything that looks fun or makes you think "what the heck is that?".
- Pick something together that you want to try- you can even give it a fun pet name.
- Try to make it home from the store before you give in to trying it out (or don't...we won't tell). If you're shopping online, have some fun impatiently imagining together how you're going to use it.
