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Let’s Get Wet
Water streaming from a tap: that’s a sex toy right there. Maybe not officially, but it sure functions like one. And with all the flowing, trickling, surging and spraying that water can do, you’ve got endless options for custom fun.
Water is Consistently Inconsistent
Turn on a shower and you’ll see jets of water, under pressure, all heading in roughly the same direction. Yep, that sounds like…a shower.But hang on a sec. Every so often there’s a rogue droplet that doesn’t follow the crowd. Sometimes one of the jets may falter a little and drip rather than stream. It’s these unpredictable moments that keep sensations feeling fresh when water hits the skin.
Five Ways to Get Clit Pleasure with Water
①Defining the Splash Zone
There are a few ways to aim water at the clit, and they range in intensity. What may feel too intense at first could feel better after arousal builds.
The run down
The clit receives pressure through the cushion of its hood and the entire vulva gets a cascade of water.
Direct hit
Sensation dialed to 10, which can feel pull-out-all-the-stops amazing, or like too much. Generally best farther along in a session.
Hit near the clit
Aiming below or off to the side of the clit means it only gets indirect splashes. A great choice for sensitive clits or during 'warm up.'
②Controlling the Flow
Most detachable shower heads have labeled modes, like rain, massage, and mist. Figure out your flow of choice by starting with the softest spray and working up.If your showerhead doesn’t have those options, you can still get in on the fun with manual modes. See how below.
Wide
Massage
Cone
Shower head off
Thumb Over
③Ways to Move
Some find it most pleasurable to move the water stream by moving the shower head with their hand. Others prefer to move their bodies while keeping the water stream still.
Shower
Tub
④Finding the Right Distance
No matter the spray pattern, the distance from the shower head to the vulva affects the amount of pressure felt on the clit. The rule: the closer the shower head, the stronger the pressure.
Here are some poses for reference
⑤Secrets of the Hot Tub
Ah, the hot tub jet. Many have discovered its unofficial clit-stimulating properties. One approach is to face the jet wall and lower the body until the water stream hits just right. Another is to swivel the jet to alter the direction of the stream. Either way, the hot tub can be a delightfully discreet way to get off.
Ride On A Jet
Small hip movements (up, down, back and forth), direct the pressure of the jet, which is forceful but also fluttery thanks to the bubbly water.
Up and Down
Forward and back
Streaming Upward
A scooch back to the tub wall, then leaning forward onto hands and knees, aligns a jet with the vulva from behind. Water blasts horizontally, grazing against the anus, then the vulva, and splashing against the clit from below.
Bringing It to The Bedroom
Good To Know
Adjusting The Lips
Inner labia come in all shapes and sizes. Depending on what you’re working with, and what water intensity you’re going for, you may get better stimulation by pushing the folds aside.
Oh bathroom, thank you for the privacy
For a lot of people in shared households, it’s hard to find private time and space for pleasure. A bath or shower has built-in nakedness and privacy. It’s the perfect opportunity to treat yourself without anyone knowing.
Most common challenges
Ouch, too hot!
Water that feels just right on the hands may feel just wrong on the clit. Aim for lukewarm or lower pressure when starting out.
A quickie tip
For some, streaming water is the only thing that can bring them through warm up, build up, all the way to orgasm, even when not particularly turned on to begin with. So putting the clitoris under the tap for a minute or two can be a great way to 'ask your body' if it wants some pleasure.
